They explain that a change in mindset is essential for women over 60 who want to find romance. In my recent interview with dating coach, David Wygant, he suggested that men are often the ones who lack confidence and suffer from fear of rejection.His assessment requires a fundamental shift in thinking women must not be afraid to make the first move! So whats a midlife woman who was raised in a world where men were supposed to make the first move do?Many cities have an organization called. Meetups. You can join groups for everything you can possibly imagine including hiking, art, photography, travel or dining out. They also have events for men and women our age and can be a great opportunity to meet new people.When you are out with a dog or young child, there is a natural and comfortable energy about you. This weekend, grab your dog and visit your local park. If you dont have a dog, perhaps you can borrow one from a friend.Many men come in every day to get their cup of chai or latte. Pay attention and you may just find a new friend. Start a casual conversation with the man standing in line and smile!LEARN MORE Watch my interview with dating couch, David Wygant I promise that some of his senior dating advice will shock and surprise you! Let's Have a Conversation!If you love museums, look for special events that will draw a crowd. If you have a passion for books, go and browse the magazines and chat with the man next to you. He may say my wife and I and thats totally fine.If you have a grandchild, take them for a walk or buy them ice-cream at a local cafe. You will be smiling and thats a good start! Go Cultural Explore Museums, Bookstores and Theaters. The most important dating guideline is to simply do things you.